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Sorry, Not Sorry – The Autism Helper

So quick ahead about three weeks. We determined to go over to the park that’s throughout the road from our home. Ady has been enjoying there since she was capable of stroll. It’s mainly her yard. On this specific day, there weren’t many individuals except for her siblings and a lady who occurred to be the identical age as Ady. She was being watched by her grandmother.

I all the time have eyes on Ady, although it’s a place I really feel snug taking her. One factor that she has performed recently is go to the place different persons are sitting and need to choose up water bottles. I all the time appropriate her and inform her to place them again and observe up by telling her she will be able to’t use different peoples issues with out asking. Even when she doesn’t reply, I do know she hears me.

On this specific day,  she noticed a pink water bottle about 20 ft from the place we have been enjoying. It was on the bench subsequent To the girl that had been watching her granddaughter. As she picked up the water bottle all the pieces following felt like sluggish movement. I yelled to Ady to depart it alone, however earlier than I may get to her the girl who had been sitting on the bench bought up rapidly and grabbed Ady by the arm and the waist and pulled her again and grabbed the bottle away from her. Though it wasn’t forceful, simply the truth that she put her fingers on Ady, put me in a state of shock. She knew I used to be with Ady and remained on the park for the subsequent hour, however stated nothing to me. I contemplated your entire time what I ought to say or do.

I all the time considered myself as a “mama bear”, however straight away I used to be simply frozen in shock. I don’t assume it’s ever OK to place fingers on another person’s youngster. (I’ve taught for 16 years and I’d by no means assume to do this). Basically Ady was simply shaking (stimming) with a water bottle and determined to take off with it. The worst that would’ve  occurred was that she would’ve ran off with it and it may’ve been retrieved.

I internalized it the remainder of the night, calling a number of individuals to speak about it as a result of I felt like a foul mother. I wished to react in another way, however didn’t. I used to be so use to saying sorry and being apologetic over Ady’s actions. I used to be beating myself up over it as a mum or dad. Even  simply to say “why did you try this?” So after just a few days of agonizing over it, I made a decision that I wished it to be the subject for my subsequent weblog submit. I wished to share in hopes that it might change the way in which others react to these with disabilities or simply others on the whole.



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